Some men will subconsciously tear down the woman who has something they want. Some men will uplift women and their missions.
Let’s talk about the difference.
A man who wants something from a woman that he’s not getting may act in the following ways:
- insatiable desire for her body, her energy
- tearing her down when he sees her succeeding
- feeling very lofty for his minor financial success, feels inflated when giving to a woman
- desires to have a lot of conversations of big ideas, but does little with them and does not have a command of his own money or make those things happen
At the root of any of this behavior is a dis-integration of the Mother in the man.
A man needs to acknowledge his insatiable thirst for Her (mother, feminine, woman) and reconcile this within himself.
When he does, he will be IN SERVICE TO a woman, her mission, her success. He will ask how he can help. He will refer her services to others, he will put her in front of his people. He will invest his energy and money into her.
Because he has no problem uplifting and sharing the wisdom of the Holy Feminine for all eyes to see.
Women, my guess is that you have a lot of experience with men who do NOT understand this yet.
My guess is also that you have a lingering imprint of depletion as a result of this.
Maybe you’re married to a good man who can’t get enough of you… but it wears you down for some reason.
Maybe you enter into relationships and receive big promises from men, rearranging your life accordingly, to find he can’t keep it and then you feel depleted.
Or you spend a lot of time with male friends who talk about deep and spiritual stuff but then you realize that this time investment hasn’t actually made you more resourceful.
Maybe you have no idea what it feels like to be uplifted by a man who doesn’t want to consume you.
Heartland is about creating regenerative energetics in our systems as women so that we are no longer in depletion – and has NOTHING to do with men.
Why are women in depletion? Because we’ve operated with distortions around what masculine & feminine really are in this silly gender construct – and we’ve given and given to men, to families, to society, to workplaces…. forever.
Women are collectively depleted.
When women are replenished, we change the entire energetics of the operating system of the planet. (Starting with your world first.)
It’s a bigger educational piece that I’m happy to get into, but my love, let me ask you this – did you relate to what I was saying here? The amazing thing is, too, that when we say “no more” to depletion and clear these lower-masculine behaviors from our lives, and/or correct the energetic template ourselves, the men who show up in our lives are the ones who have done the work with the Holy Mother and are now prepared to support you as well.
What a welcome change, right??
Change the energetics from depletion to regeneration in YOU, now. Heartland will take you there.